Oh I do like to be beside the seaside…

All together now…. oh I do like to be beside the seeeeeeeeeeea!  But, who would have thought it possible to be beside the sea on a sunny sunny day in the UK on the 1st of October?!? That’s global warming for you I guess… Yes, this weekend, Richmond Daddy insisted we ignore the long list of tedious tasks we usually have to crack through of a weekend and instead pack up our picnic hamper and head to the beach for a day of sun, sea, sand, and surviving with a baby at the beach.

So, off we went to West Wittering near Chichester in Sussex, to introduce Richmond Baby to the joys of an English seaside experience.  And it was lovely!  Beautiful (well beautiful for the UK) sandy beach, lovely clear and crisp sea water – although I was only brave enough to paddle, still can’t get my head around swimming in the sea in this country – and enough space that we didn’t feel like sardines crammed in alongside a million and one other people who’d decided to maximise the sunny October day with a day at the beach.

The Highs:

  • Seeing Richmond Baby in awe of the seaside around her, the new sights and sounds she took in carefully and appeared to enjoy
  • Watching her eat strawberries for the very first time, the squishy red fruit oozing from her lips (and down her front… the dress is soaking in Napisan as I type)
  • Seeing her giggle and marvel at the waves coming in and lapping against her little feet and feeling her feet sink into the wet sand at the shore
  • Burying her toes in the soft sand
  • Watching her peacefully snooze under a big umbrella after her bottle of milk, with the sea breeze softly ruffling her hair, which was stood up straight on her head punk-style with all the sun-cream that had been rubbed into it (by Daddy…)
  • Having the chance to snooze in the warm sun on a Saturday afternoon with the sound of the sea in our ears
The Lows:
  • Trying to stop Richmond Baby from eating sand…. repeat x10!
  • Trying to stop Richmond Baby from eating the towel covered in sand… repeat x5
  • Changing a poo-bum on the beach while trying not to get it on the sand covered towel – she’s wriggling so much these days this makes this very tricky! – and trying not to get sand into her nappy
  • Having to change a poo-bum on the grass verge at a petrol/service station en route home because there were no changing facilities
  • Trying to stop Richmond Baby from eating grass during above nappy changing incident
But the highs certainly outweighed the lows: what a lovely way to spend an October saturday…

A day at the beach

A rare moment of keeping her sun hat on

Enjoying some hummus for the first time

A little paddle

First taste of fresh strawberries, essential beach picnic fare

An afternoon snooze in the shade

A piggyback down to the sea

Hanging with mummy (hat discarded...)

PS. I experienced serious beach hut envy while down on the beach watching one family who looked like something out of The White Company catalogue breezing in and out of their pale blue painted hut, eating freshly barbecued corn on the cob as the blonde flowing haired children (and that was just the boys) ran around playing badminton with the wind in their hair.  Apparently Keith Richards bought a hut at West Wittering for £60k… if anyone knows how I can get me one for a whole lot less then do let me know!

Baby takes flight…

At the weekend, we took Richmond Baby on her very first aeroplane flight!  We (well, mostly I) were a bit nervous about it:  would her ears hurt? would she scream the place down? would we get dirty looks from all non-parents in the vicinity (after all, we all know pre baby how it felt to get on a plane and realise you’re the one sat next to/in front of/behind a baby…)? – it was only a 50 minute flight, London to Dublin, and I’m delighted to report that it was a success and none of the worries I’d had were realised.

It took us (well, mostly me) practically a whole day to pack and despite the fact we were staying with family – so arguably didn’t need the proverbial kitchen sink – and only going for 3 days, you would have thought judging by the suitcase that we were off on a 2 week long-haul vacation to somewhere with no shops or baby related goods available locally.  Well, it’s best to be prepared right?

I packed for sunshine, for showers, for blustery wind, for hot nights, for cool nights, for nappy changes, for bottle feeding and for starting weaning (more on that another time), for playtime, for sleep time, for days out and days in.  Hell, I even threw in a swimming costume! (actually that last bit is a lie, but everything else is true).  Let’s just say, I made the most of my 20kg luggage allowance.  Well, as I said before, it’s best to be prepared right?

The first thing that differed when travelling with a baby vs. travelling without (other than foregoing the usual obligatory boozing on the plane) is that we couldn’t check in online and just turn up and dump our bags then charge through security and bodyroll onto the plane just before they shut the doors.  Like we normally would.  No, we actually had to do it the old-fashioned way and queue up, answer questions about who packed our bags, and then we got old skool style boarding passes and checked in our mammoth case before heading to the oversized luggage drop off area to dump the car seat.  I did enjoy having to hand over Richmond Baby’s little passport, too cute!  I didn’t really understand why her boarding pass just said “Infant Cox” on it – why don’t they print them with their actual name on I wonder?

And we're off!

Anyway, off we went to the departure gates, where we then made our way through the “family lane” at security – never noticed that before – and thankfully didn’t have to try or give up any of the formula I had packed in our hand luggage.  All the while, baby was happily looking around and smiling at all the new faces, bouncing about in her Baby Björn.

Then you get to board the aircraft first, by nature of the fact that you have a child with you, nice!  We got settled into our seats and still all was well with baby, she got a bit frustrated when she had to be strapped in on my lap and sit relatively still, but singing the Teletubbies theme tune on loop seemed to do the trick and she was happy enough (probably the same can’t be said for the people in front of us who had to listen to me overemphasizing the name Po every time I repeated the jaunty little song).

As we took off, she happily drank her milk and there were no signs of any ear issues, she didn’t even flinch as the aircraft got noisier and noisier around us, just carried on glug glug glugging contentedly.  For the rest of the flight she was happy to look out of the window,

Are we nearly there yet?

sit on mummy or daddy’s lap, chew on her toy frog (dropping the toy frog on the floor a lot was another game she enjoyed playing) and then before we knew it we were starting our descent into Dublin.  Another little glug glug glug of milk and we were down on the ground without any fuss.  Phew.  I was glad the flight was so short as even though she’d been really good, it’s quite a challenge to keep a 20lb baby happy in a small and confined space – all that bouncing up and down really kills your arms!

We then spent a wonderful weekend in Naas with family, who – I think it’s fair to say – all fell in love with our beautiful little girl (and who could blame them!), particularly because of her sunny disposition and the fact that she “didn’t make strange”… which apparently means she didn’t grimace every time she met someone new and they beamed at her and said hello.  So that’s a new phrase we all learnt: “she doesn’t make strange”.

She made friends with Roly the Ragdoll pussy cat,

The very handsome Roly

she impressed cousin Robert with her ball skillz (she can grip a small inflatable beach ball between her feet and move it from her hands to her feet, it’s quite a sight!), she delighted my cousin Angela with her pudgy thighs and her big smiles, and she even ROLLED OVER for the first time while we were there!!  Most exciting, rolling has begun.  In fact it was quite a weekend for firsts as she also had her first taste of real food!  Weaning has begun… and no, we didn’t start her on Guinness just for the craic, we stuck to a teaspoon of baby rice,

Baby rice: more out than in?

which despite some face pulling she did actually chow down.  That’s my girl!

It was particularly special that she had the chance to meet my wonderful Granny, her great granny, who at 95 years of age is an amazing woman who is adored by everyone.  I have written about her here before and I was so happy that Richmond Baby – who is Granny’s 12th great-grandchild! – had the chance to meet and spend time with her, they got on fabulously well, even though baby made more than one attempt to make off with her glasses!

Lovely to meet you!

Despite us only being there for a short while, I am pleased to report that I managed to squeeze a bit (well, actually quite a lot) of super shopping into our trip.  We swung by the Kildare Village outlet shopping mall and despite only being there for an hour, I managed to do some SERIOUS damage!  Well, there were just too many gorgeous things for Richmond Baby that were bargainous (well, mostly bargainous) and I couldn’t help myself!

So let’s just say that basically baby is well kitted out for Autumn/Winter 11/12 and not just that, we’re talking well kitted out in the most B-A-U-tiful clothes you can imagine from chic winter woolies, cords, and dresses by Petit Bateau to a wardrobe essential Burberry parka (ahem, yes, okay I realise I went a bit over the top here) and high fashion stylish separates from Chloé.  Okay, yes, perhaps I did go more than a bit over the top, but honestly they were discounted and it was too good a deal to walk away…. Plus, I bought all sizes 18months+ so she’ll have a decent amount of wear out of them… honest!  Watch this space to see all the clothes modelled in due course, but in the meantime, here’s a sneak preview of some of my favourite pieces from the “Allegra AW11/12 Wardrobe”:

Soft pinks and greys from Petit Bateau

Breton striped top and a pop of colour, again, Petit Bateau

"Autumn Romance" - Chloe

The essential autumnal parka

It was a fantastic weekend and so lovely to spend time with family, even though it is only a short flight to get over there, we just don’t do it enough – I guess life get’s in the way.  But, I will plan another visit in the not too distant future and we’ll be back over there again in no time (well, besides, baby’s wardrobe will need updating for Spring/Summer 12 let’s not forget!).

This week I’m loving…

Week Six.

A travelling theme this week as we took Richmond Baby on her first flight at the weekend – most exciting!  A quick hop over to the Emerald Isle to pay a visit to my Granny (her Great Granny!) and other relatives there, made for baby’s first trip abroad and I’m glad to report it went swimmingly.  Not least in part due to a few choice items, which thereby make it to the top of the list of things that  this week I am indeed lovin’….

The BundleBean

I was sent a BundleBean to trial by the lovely Emily who came up with the idea for the product after having her first child and despairing at the amount of kit you need to take with you even for just a short trip to the shops.  It’s a versatile blanket that can be used on everything from a buggy to a bikeseat, baby carrier to a car seat.  It even serves as a playmat or picnic rug!  I was intrigued…

Our trip to Ireland seemed like the perfect opportunity to road-test the product, particularly given that I’d already packed everything but the kitchen sink (just in case!), so only having to take one blanket with me that could be useful in a million and one different ways seemed like a smart idea.  And useful, I can report, it most certainly was, for in the 3 short days we were on the go, we used it to…

- keep baby snug and warm in the car seat

Snug as a bug in her BundleBean

- keep baby snug and warm in the baby carrier

- serve as a playmat on the wooden/tiled floors when she needed to have a kick around and roll about (yes!!! she has started to roll!)

- serve as extra padding under her pop up cot

It was great!  And I can really see how I will use it lots particularly as we move into autumn/winter.  So what’s the difference between the BundleBean and a regular blanket I hear you ask?  Well, it has a unique zip-seam feature, which means the elasticated section at the bottom can be adjusted to create a pouch for children’s feet and a perfect fit on to your chosen mode of transport.  It also has two elasticated Velcro tabs, which form loops (to go around buggy frame or baby carrier straps) or fix onto each other in two different lengths (to fix around the back of a buggy / bike seat).

It’s really easy to put on and take off and Richmond Baby enjoyed giving it a bit of a chew too, which was fine because it has a waterproof nylon side (as well as a “anti pill fleece” side) so she didn’t end up with a soggy blanket… often the case.  I can honestly say that this is a great piece of kit and would highly recommend it: the BundleBean costs £29.99 and is available in selected ASDA stores or online, it is also soon to be stocked in Halfords and Boots.

The Samsonite Pop Up Bubble

Picture taken from the Gro Company website as I couldn't take a photo of Richmond Baby in the cot without waking her up!

We deliberated a lot over travel cots, most seemed far too heavy to do much travelling with rather ironically, but in the end we thought we’d give this one a try and with a price tag of £30.99 from The Gro Company, it seemed worth a punt.  Overall we were really pleased with it and Richmond Baby slept very happily in there for 2 nights while we were away.  The plus points are that it is super light (2kg); really quick and easy to assemble; and it zips all the way round so that baby is safely cocooned inside, in fact it features a zip up mosquito net – not necessary for our trip to Ireland but would be a useful feature in warmer climes.  A couple of things that I would highlight, one being that it proved rather challenging (and amusing) to get it back into its bag – but we think we have the knack now… – the other, I think the mattress is a bit on the thin side; not an issue really for a short stay away but I think it’s probably worth buying the inflatable mattress that goes with it but is sold separately if you’re going on a longer stay away from home.

The Gro Anywhere Blind

Another one from The Gro Company here, it’s their portable blackout blind, which proved really useful for us when on hols but is something we also make a lot of use of at home.  It attaches to the window with suction cups and instantly plunges the room into pitch black darkness: a necessity for giving Richmond Baby the ideal environment to snooze away her daytime naps in peace.

who turned out the lights?!

We actually have a blackout blind in the nursery but still put this one up behind it for additional blackout-ness, but it was really great to have it on holiday to make sure that we were able to get the room really dark for baby when she went down at night and it was still light.  I’d really recommend one for use both home and away:  £29.99 from The Gro Company.

What are your top tips for “must have” items to take when travelling with babies/kids?